For most of us, family is one of the most important parts of life. Whether the family we're born into or the one we've chosen, it can be a powerful source of joy, comfort, and support. But like any relationship, family life isn't always simple.

Small arguments are normal — part of living in close connection with others. When those disagreements become ongoing, though, they can cause real heartache and affect everyone's wellbeing. Families can fall into cycles of conflict, constant tension, or withdrawal and shutdown. These patterns are exhausting, and we understand that.

Life Supports is here to help you and your family in those times of need.

 

How Family Counselling Helps

Family counselling is effective at improving communication, resolving conflict, healing generational trauma, navigating life transitions, and breaking unhealthy patterns of relating to each other.

Our therapists work with families to bring clarity to each person's concerns — acknowledging everyone's values and perspectives. In a safe, therapeutic environment, families can reconcile differences in a way that builds respect, understanding, and healthier connection.

That means creating a space where everyone can:

  • Feel comfortable speaking up, listened to, and being understood
  • Gain meaningful insight into each other’s perspectives
  • Effectively and respectfully negotiate relationship needs
  • Create accountability for individual contributions to the family whole

What Goes on in a Session? 

It's common for one or two family members to start the process, with others joining when they're ready. Individual family counselling is also available if you need a private, non-judgmental space to work through your own family concerns.

There's no requirement for the whole family to attend — counselling can be effective even when not everyone is able to participate. Your counsellor will work with whoever is present, building on existing strengths and creating space for growth.

Sessions help families to:

  • Clearly identify what's affecting each person
  • Ensure every family member feels included and considered
  • Set clear family goals 
  • Practise safe, effective ways to address grievances
  • Move away from blame and towards shared responsibility
  • Communicate respectfully about difficult issues
  • Break cycles of conflict by finding new ways of relating
  • Treat setbacks as opportunities to learn
  • Recognise and build on the family's unique strengths
  • Review progress and maintain improvements 

Types of Counselling

 

 Techniques our counsellors may use in your sessions include:

  • Cognitive Behavioural Family Therapy (CBFT) — helps families identify beliefs and behaviours that are working for them and those that aren't, reinforcing healthy patterns while reducing harmful ones.
  • Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFST) — turns the focus inward, exploring the different 'parts' within an individual. Reintegrating these parts can improve anxiety, depression, self-compassion, and resilience.
  • Experiential Family Therapy (EFT) — explores each family member's experience of themselves, each other, and the family as a whole. Through honest communication and new boundaries, families can build deeper cooperation and connection.
  • Strategic Family Therapy (SFT) — identifies negative cycles of conflict and replaces habitual ways of relating with new responses to family problems, creating lasting change in family dynamics.

Our Family Counsellors

Life Supports matches you with a family counsellor who is genuinely right for what your family is going through — not just the nearest available provider.

Our counsellors are available face-to-face, online, and by phone, seven days a week. We serve individuals, couples, and families across every major state and territory in Australia.

For appointments or enquiries, please call 1300 735 030 or leave us an email via our contact page.

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Family Counselling FAQs

The goal of family counselling is to improve the quality of relationships within a family and to address – and help overcome – any deep-seated issues that are causing conflict or fractures. Often this involves enabling different members of a family unit to understand one another better, and acknowledge their various perspectives.

A Court may order a family to attend family counselling during the process of the legal dissolution of a marriage or ahead of the final decision in a custody dispute. This therapy may need to be completed before the final decision is made, and its outcome can influence that decision – for this reason, family counselling is not always confidential when mandated by the courts.

There are as many different issues as there are types of family, and a professional family counsellor can tackle just about any issue that comes their way, but common themes that come up in a lot of family counselling sessions include:

  • Problems with blended or step-families, especially in new marriages
  • Cultural or religious differences 
  • Death and grief
  • Emotional and behavioural problems, especially among children and teenagers 
  • Substance abuse
  • Violence and abuse
  • Financial issues
  • Illness or disability
  • Separations and divorces.

Individual therapy focuses solely on the single client, their internal landscape, issues and mental health problems. It’s extremely inward-focused and personal. Family counselling can be personal too, but it’s more about developing more positive relationships and learning to navigate closeness with people where there may be pre-existing conflicts or tensions. Practically, family counselling involves working together with those family members to solve issues, and having open and honest conversations with them.

Family counselling involves identifying problems that are impacting each family member, and building strategies for each family member to help the others on those issues. It works to create a safe, mediated space where grievances can be aired and talked through in a constructive, non-judgmental, and non-confrontational manner. Often, it will involve setting achievable goals, such as fewer arguments or more time spent together. It also can be a great way to learn to communicate better with family members.

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