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Domestic violence can affect anyone, anytime, anywhere; regardless of culture, sexuality, or gender identity – though, it tends to be perpetrated by male partners, from a current or past relationship, and towards women.
Domestic violence counselling provides survivors of violence with tools to manage or exit a relationship, as well as deal with the consequences of a past relationship. This includes empowering survivors to:
Domestic violence counselling helps perpetrators of violence learn healthy ways to express themselves and manage their emotions. This includes empowering perpetrators to:
If you’re unsure that you’re experiencing domestic violence, a qualified counsellor can help you clarify what’s happening in your current relationship, or what happened in the past.
Domestic violence involves behaviour patterns that cause another person to live in fear. It comes in many forms. They are not mutually exclusive:
Survivors of domestic violence may have repeated physical injuries like bruises, scratches, or burns. They might conceal their injuries or not provide logical explanations for them.
But physical abuse is just one type of domestic violence. Other types of domestic violence can be harder to spot, but there are signs to look out for:
Domestic violence can have a significant impact on both emotional and physical wellbeing. Common experiences include:
If you are or suspect that you are a perpetrator of violence, the best thing you can do is acknowledge the problem. Acknowledgement will help you embrace change and learn emotional management tools, free of blame and excuses.
If you’re unsure, ask yourself if you have:
Our counsellors work with people who want to stop using violence, helping them understand what's driving their behaviour, develop healthier ways of expressing themselves, and take responsibility for the harm caused. Anger management counselling is one approach that can help identify underlying emotions and build more constructive responses.
We empower survivors of violence to understand the choices available, repair their confidence, and regain trust in healthy relationships.
Even if you feel unsure that what you’re experiencing is domestic violence, speaking to a qualified counsellor can help clarify what’s happening in your current relationship, or what happened in a past relationship.
We also provide relationship and family counselling.
If you are experiencing domestic violence in any form, there are services to support you.
Services Australia is a national organisation that helps you access financial aid, local support, legal aid, and housing services.
There are many other support services to help you:
1800RESPECT is a free domestic violence counselling service open 24 hours, 7 days a week.
P: 1800 737 732
Its app Daisy, available on Google Play and the App Store, connects people to local services, including financial, legal, housing and children’s services.
Kids Helpline is a free counselling service for people aged 5 to 25.
P: 1800 551 800
Lifeline is a free counselling service that helps people experiencing domestic violence.
P: 131 114
Family Relationship Advice assists with family issues, including separation and domestic violence.
P: 1800 050 321
The Elder Abuse Help Line provides free information and support. The Service Finder can help you find services in your area.
P: 1800 353 374
Compass provides information on elder abuse and can help you find local support services.
HYPERLINK INCLUDED: https://www.compass.info/
Sunny, available on Google Play and the App Store, is an app made by women with a disability for women with a disability.
Sunny provides information on domestic violence and assists women with a disability to access support services.
MensLine Australia provides support to both survivors and perpetrators of violence perpetrators, online and over the phone.
P: 1300 789 978
Men’s Referral Service is a free counselling and referral service to help men stop using violence, available online at the No to Violence website and over the phone.
P: 1300 766 491
Money Smart helps people regain financial control. It provides information on divorce and separation and urgent money help.
Financial Counselling Australia offers free financial counselling to help people experiencing domestic violence.
P: 1800 007 007
National Legal Aid connects you to legal assistance in your state or territory. It provides free information sessions and phone advice.
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Counselling provides a safe environment for victims to process their trauma, regain confidence, build resilience, and develop strategies to heal and move forward. It supports victims in rebuilding their lives with a renewed sense of self-worth.
Counselling can provide a space of compassion where victims can find ways to heal after domestic violence. A counsellor can help affected individuals understand and manage the psychological impacts of abuse, such as anxiety and PTSD, as well as guide them towards recovery, empowerment, feeling safe, and regaining autonomy in everyday life.
Domestic violence counselling addresses the specific impacts of violence on those who are currently or have previously experienced domestic abuse. Domestic violence counsellors specialise in trauma recovery and safety planning, working with their clients to feel empowered and safe with structured, compassionate and personalised care.
Domestic violence can occur in any relationship. You don’t have to live with someone to experience domestic violence. It can affect you even if you have left the relationship.
Domestic violence can occur in relationships with: