Depression doesn't discriminate. A depressed mood is something most of us will experience at some point in our lives. If you've been feeling numb, disconnected, or like life has lost its colour, it's important to find a different way forward.

Despite how depression makes you feel, you're not alone. Over one million Australians are living with depression right now. One in seven will experience a depressive episode at least once in their lifetime.

What Is Depression? Signs and Symptoms to Know

A depressed mood can descend like a dark cloud, affecting the way you think, feel and behave. If it lasts a while, a depressive episode can also have real impacts on your personal and professional life, your sense of self, your motivation, and your relationships.

If you've been feeling down, stressed, emotionally numb or overwhelmed for more than a couple of weeks, you may be experiencing depression. Here are some of the common signs to be aware of.

Mental and emotional symptoms

  • Feeling stressed and overwhelmed
  • Loss of interest in everyday activities
  • Difficulties with decision-making
  • Impaired concentration and memory
  • Feeling numb and disconnected
  • Frequent, repetitive negative thoughts (rumination)
  • Increased irritability
  • Critical self-talk
  • Sense of despair, hopelessness or worthlessness
  • Intense sadness, crying
  • Recurrent, intrusive thoughts of death, suicide or self-harm

Physical and behavioural symptoms

  • Insomnia or hypersomnia (excessive sleeping)
  • Fatigue despite adequate sleep
  • Changes in appetite and eating habits
  • Increased use of alcohol, nicotine or other drugs
  • Social withdrawal
  • Reduced libido

Feelings of sadness and low mood are quite common, and usually resolve with time. Untreated depression is different — it doesn't go away. A depressive episode can feel relentless and incredibly hard to live with, sometimes lasting weeks, months, or longer.


What Causes Depression?

Depression is often linked to a combination of factors rather than a single cause.

  • Genetics — depression sometimes runs in families
  • Brain chemistry — a chemical imbalance of the neurotransmitters that regulate mood
  • Personality traits — tendencies towards worry or perfectionism can increase risk
  • Life events — illness, relationship breakdowns, work stress, or major change
  • Perinatal depression — occurring during pregnancy or after having a child
  • Seasonal affective disorder — a dip in mood during the colder months

Feeling depressed for no obvious reason is also very common and often harder to talk about. Life might look fine on the surface, but depression can still cloud your view. Many people in this situation become harshly self-critical, assuming something must be wrong with them because "everything should be fine." It's not a character flaw. It's depression, and it's treatable.

How Counselling for Depression Works

Depression is particularly responsive to counselling. Research shows that counselling combined with physical exercise, healthy eating, and sleeping well can dramatically improve wellbeing and reduce symptoms.

Counselling targets the underlying causes of depression. You'll learn strategies to regulate your mood, manage stress more effectively, and get your mind working for you, not against you. Effective counselling is also the key to long-term recovery and relapse prevention.

Decades of research suggest that for relief from depression, counselling is more effective than medication alone, and that a course of therapy is just as effective as medication combined with counselling.

Evidence-Based Therapies We Use

Our counsellors draw on a range of approaches depending on what's right for you. Common evidence-based methods for treating depression include:

  • Cognitive-Behavioural Therapy (CBT) — helps you identify and shift unhelpful thought patterns
  • Mindfulness-Based Therapy — builds awareness and reduces reactivity to difficult feelings
  • Interpersonal Therapy — focuses on improving relationships and communication
  • Psychodynamic Psychotherapy — explores how past experiences shape present feelings

Your counsellor will work with you to figure out the right approach, not use a one-size-fits-all method.

What to Expect From Your First Session

Your first session is a chance to share what's been going on, at whatever pace feels right. You don't need to have it all figured out before you call or even before you arrive.

Your counsellor will listen carefully, ask questions to better understand your experience, and start working with you on a plan. Even if you feel unsure whether what you're experiencing is depression, speaking to a qualified counsellor can clarify what's happening and give you effective tools to move forward.

Our Depression Counsellors

Life Supports matches you with an experienced counsellor who is genuinely right for what you're going through, not just the nearest available provider.

Our counsellors are available face-to-face, online, and by phone, seven days a week. We serve individuals, couples, and families across every major state and territory in Australia.

For appointments or enquiries, please call 1300 735 030 or leave us an email via our contact page.

 

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Depression counselling FAQs

Yes. Seeing a counsellor can help individuals learn strategies to process and manage negative thoughts and experiences more effectively. In a safe and compassionate space, a therapist can support individuals in feeling comfortable sharing their inner thoughts and feelings without worry of judgment. This environment can foster positive personal growth, improvements in mood, and regaining interest and pleasure in everyday activities.

According to the American Psychiatric Association, depression is extremely treatable, with 80-90% of people eventually responding well to their treatment, which may include counselling alone or a combination of counselling and medication. There is strong evidence that counselling is at least as effective as medication in treating depression, and counselling tends to be a more effective long term strategy, because it provides you with mental tools to deploy if your depression symptoms ever return. One of counselling’s most important strengths is that it helps the client develop resilience in the face of adversity or suffering, enabling you to bounce back quicker.

Depression is a broad term, and there are many factors that will impact the direction your counsellor chooses to take in your session.  Most importantly, a good, experienced practitioner will be adept at attuning the session to your needs and allowing you to maintain a sense of control over your own treatment. Depression counselling is a bit of a journey, but will involve identifying triggers and sources in your life and developing the tools to essentially re-train your brain to cope with those issues better. 

Treatments that have a proven track record in the context of depression include, but are not limited to: 

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) CBT is an extremely effective method for altering the beliefs, ideas and behaviours that might be holding you back or triggering your depression. It focuses particularly on addressing and fixing the types of thought distortions that might lead you to believe or feel negative things, whether about yourself or about life in general.  

Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) Encourages people to embrace their thoughts and accept them rather than struggling to resist them. It involves accepting the bad with the good, and while it can seem strange to start with it helps to build that ever-important resilience. 

Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT)  DBT is actually a form, or ‘offshoot’, of CBT, which involves developing healthy ways to cope with and regulate intense emotions, as well as improving interpersonal relationships. 

Schematherapy Schematherapy involves identifying your ‘schemas’, which are essentially your ways of viewing the world. Another way to think of a schema is as a lens through which you view yourself, your life or events, that tints or affects how you see things. By identifying schemas, you can understand more about yourself and recognise how your perspective on certain issues may be contributing to your depression. 

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) EMDR is an interactive therapy often used to treat trauma. It involves reliving triggering experiences in small doses while your counsellor directs your eye movements. It works to de-sensitise you to the triggering experience until you can learn to live with the memory and not be triggered by it. Mindfulness  Mindfulness is similar to meditation, although it lacks spiritual connotations and is used for practical purposes.

When practicing mindfulness, you work to focus on your awareness of the present moment, often through a combination of breathing practices and vocal guidance. It is extremely powerful in reducing stress and inducing a feeling of calm, which can help to put the rest of life into perspective. 1. Karyotaki, E. (2016) Combining pharmacotherapy and psychotherapy or monotherapy for major depression? A meta-analysis on the long-term effects. Journal of Affective Disorders.

Counselling for depression targets breaking the cycle of negative thinking in an attempt to re-regulate cognitive processing. A therapist will work with an individual to identify the patterns and environmental factors contributing to feelings of hopelessness and unhappiness and apply therapeutic techniques that change/challenge these. Different to treatments for anxiety or other psychological disorders, depression counselling works on rebuilding a foundation of esteem and positivity, while anxiety treatments focus more on physical symptoms (like panic) and learning strategies to manage physiological responses to stimuli.

Counselling can be highly effective in reducing symptoms of depression, leading to feelings of greater life satisfaction and general well-being. Psychological treatment plays a crucial role in treating depression in individuals, with substantial scientific evidence in support of therapeutic interventions. However, counselling success rates are contingent on many factors, such as a person’s commitment to therapy and willingness to adopt lifestyle changes. Generally, individuals will notice positive outcomes in their first 10-20 sessions with a counsellor, though long-term counselling may be required in more complex cases.

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