Taking a positive stance in our relationships

Rekindle Your Relationship or Marriage

Intimate relationships are essential to a person's overall health and sense of purpose. Life Supports recognises that couples may experience challenges. As people mature from childhood to maturity, unproductive behaviours often emerge, which can be harmful to these relationships. Consequently, feelings of loneliness may surface. But it's crucial to keep in mind that things can change. A trained relationship counsellor can assist in altering these narratives by creating a secure space in which feelings, grievances, and objectives can be expressed. Together with the couple, the therapist explores the events and personal stories that have moulded the relationship and gives them strategies to fortify and enhance their bond.

 

How Does It Work?

Throughout your sessions, you will explore new and helpful methods for reconnecting with both yourself and your relationship. Our therapists will lay out for you and your partner a variety of evidence-based treatment modalities that are specifically tailored to your individual needs. By promoting empathy, communication, and trust via the application of solution-focused techniques in therapy, our mission is to assist couples in successfully mending and improving their relationships.

You can expect your sessions with a relationship counsellor to include the following steps:

  1. An initial assessment and goal-setting
  2. Identifying thoughts, feelings and behaviours
  3. Enhancing and building essential skills
  4. Strengthening emotional connection
  5. Continual support and practical interventions

 

What Problems Can Relationship Counselling Amend?

Relationship counselling is beneficial for many different people in various circumstances. Couples most frequently go to therapy to work through stress and conflict issues, mend a broken bond, rebuild trust following an affair, or learn new techniques for expressing expectations and feelings. Additionally, therapists can assist you in addressing the following:

  • Jealousy
  • Commitment difficulties
  • Dating anxiety
  • Difficulty with establishing and maintaining relationships
  • Sexual difficulties
  • Beginning relationships
  • Pre-marital counselling
  • Difficulties in relationships with colleagues and/or bosses
  • Difficulties in relationships with friends
  • Difficulties in relationships with family members

 

What Can You Expect from a Session with a Relationship Counsellor?

In the initial therapy session of your new relationship, your therapist's main objective will be to gather as much information as possible about you and your partner. Your therapist will ask questions about you, your spouse, and your past during the introductions portion of the session. It is essential to listen closely to one another and to be prepared to respond to questions one after the other.

These first sessions aim to investigate your pasts in order to identify particular patterns and behaviours that cause misunderstandings and conflicts in your relationship. Together with your partner, you will work with the therapist to pinpoint the good and bad parts of your relationship and to implement change-promoting techniques.

It's common to have a range of emotions following your first counselling appointment. This makes sense—undergoing therapy can be challenging. It's imperative that you allow yourself the time and space you require to address any feelings that may surface. It is crucial to keep in mind that change occurs not just during therapy sessions but also during the period of introspection and integrating newly learned skills into daily life.

 

What Are the Results?

 

Better Communication Skills

A counsellor can help couples communicate by teaching them how to have empathetic conversations and encouraging conversational strategies. During your sessions, your counsellor will give you tips on how to become a more forceful communicator, emotional controller, and active listener. This can facilitate clearer communication of your needs and assist you and your spouse understand one another's points of view. This gives you and your partner the communication skills you need to handle being apart and strengthen your bond as a couple.

 

Enhanced Emotional Connection

Counselling sessions' main goal is to address the problems that cause a lack of intimacy and trust in relationships. Therapy can help people accept each other by encouraging them to practise empathy and improve their communication skills. This promotes meaningful engagement and fortifies the relationship.

 

Conflict Resolution

A professional relationship therapist can assist you and your spouse in creating fresh strategies for resolving conflicts and misunderstandings. Together with your counsellor, you will identify the behaviours and patterns that are producing conflict in your relationship and develop strategies to resolve problems and strengthen your relationship.

Taking steps towards repairing your relationship

When we surround ourselves with positive relationships, the beneficial and positive effects are evident in our lives. Our wellbeing - especially emotional stability - can be greatly enhanced through loving relationships. Unfortunately, when relationships are not displaying these strengths, we can find ourselves feeling the opposite. We find they create a feeling of separation, betrayal, sadness and even anger. With no clear rules or design to success in relationships, everyone goes through highs and lows, doing the best they can. When this stops working functionally for us and things begin to fall apart, we may struggle to see a resolution. Where do we turn when our relationships are in trouble?

When is relationship counselling right?

Are you frequently in conflict? Is constant hostility and animosity prevalent in your home? Are signs of intimacy diminishing? These seemingly trivial but frequent relationship problems can be signs of larger issues causing the relationship to falter. Relationships can often be challenging. Different beliefs, opinions, cultures, and/or backgrounds between partners can often be the cause of differences in opinion, and interpersonal conflict. Life Supports accredited counsellors and psychologists will facilitate a solution for you, both as a couple and individually, by identifying the core issues you face. Further, Life Supports will help you revive your relationship with a fresh sense of understanding, and clear path forward. Our relationship counsellors are pleased to offer their services to all relationships.

Offering counselling to those that are married

Pain is very prevalent when a marriage begins to stop functioning, especially when there are children involved. A skilled relationship counsellor can help attain accord, harmony and agreement again by breaking through the surface and discovering an agreed solution to marital issues. It is common for a relationship to meet barriers, such as:

  • Extra-marital affairs
  • Loss of intimacy
  • Sexual problems
  • Imbalance of power
  • Controlling or abusive behaviour
  • Family issues

The understanding and proficiency of Life Supports relationship counsellors can guide you to healthy lifestyle and agreed solutions. While we pay attention and assist this we also put strong plans in place and put into practice strategies that will make a lasting impact to your relationship.

Fixing fences and building relationship bridges

Attending to the relationship needs of the couple and each individual within the partnership, skilled relationship counselling brings about change. The results include enhanced self-awareness, and deeper insight into your partner's relationship needs. Life Supports can help you clarify the issues affecting your relationships and marriage. By exposing the underlying issues, we help strategise the plan needed to maintain a collaborative, respectful and happy solution. In understanding the core issues and how they affect you and your partner. You can take positive steps to make it a successful and strong relationship - begin by talking again; start now, call us on [phone] today.

Life Supports Relationship Counsellors in Adelaide

Our Adelaide-based network of Life Supports accredited counsellors are industry leaders in helping relationships and delivering effective relationship counselling. Life Supports offers unbiased, professional and emotional support to couples going through relationship issues. Take a look at the Life Supports network of counsellors and psychologists, and inform our intake consultants when you call of your preferred practitioner. We will endeavour to accommodate you and your partner. Life Supports counsellors offer confidential relationship counselling services from offices in all major cities including Sydney, Melbourne, Brisbane, Perth, Canberra, Gold Coast and many other various local towns and cities through-out Australia.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Yes, many couples find great benefit from marital or relationship counselling. A counsellor can assist with resolving disputes, enhancing communication, and identifying obstacles to closeness and connection. However, without partners' willingness to change, this is not achievable. The benefits can be substantial if both parties invest the time and energy necessary to grow and learn from the experience.

Essential components of relationship counselling are self-development and self-reflection. Though there are narratives in popular culture that portray therapists as "mending broken relationships," the reality is more intricate. The major objectives of relationship counselling are to support open communication, assist couples in accepting their flaws, and investigate practical strategies for enhancing their union.

In short, yes. However, the goal of therapy is to determine what's best for the health of both partners. This can occasionally entail coming up with novel approaches to rekindle a relationship or assisting couples in realising when their marriage is no longer pleasing to them.

Rebuilding trust and comprehending the reasons behind infidelity are two benefits of counselling. This typically calls for a lot of effort and dedication on the side of both parties. After an affair, some couples are able to move on and regain trust, but others discover that getting treatment gives them the confidence to leave a toxic relationship.

A couple does not have to attend a predetermined number of sessions in order to benefit. Every marriage is unique, and as such, their desires and aspirations are also. When you feel that your counselling progress has reached a sufficient level is a decision that only you can make. Most couples schedule between 10 and twenty sessions. After ten sessions, some couples report improvement, especially for less complicated marital issues.

Relationship counselling fees vary based on several criteria, such as location, therapist availability, and experience and skill level. Sessions cost between $65 to $255. An intake officer will ask you about your financial situation during your initial session so they can assist you in making the best decision.

Life Supports Counselling offers counselling services all over Perth, including, but not limited to:

Contact our team by phone or email to arrange a free introductory visit and begin your counselling journey with Life Supports. We'll pay close attention as you tell us about your circumstances and the type of counsellor you're seeking. Our courteous staff of intake officers is available to answer any concerns you may have regarding Life Supports programs and will carefully match you with the most appropriate counsellor.

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